CELEBRATE YOUR SHINE!

Hello everyone, happy new week! This week, we will take a sneak peek at that moment , when after all your struggles and hustles you finally make it.  How would you feel ? imagine yourself  achieving more than what you thought was impossible, how happy and fulfilled would you be at that glorious moment? It would no doubt seem to you like a miracle from God and that's why you have to celebrate the moment of your shine. It makes it more special and real to you. It also depicts the rarity of the moment.

At every point of our lives when we reach a milestone, it is important that we celebrate and enjoy every moment. It is not out of place to treat yourself well. In fact failure to celebrate means you are not grateful to God for the achievement. It also means that success doesn't mean anything to you.Meanwhile there are people who despite their hustles didn't make it to the end.

Success might be that you passed an exam in flying colours after sleepless nights, it could also be that you got promoted at work after years of meritorious service or you finally got a hang on that project you have been working on. Basically, every reward for the hard work you put on a particular project or vision is called success.

God wants us to live a happy and fulfilled life, He also wants us to cherish the happy moments. When you celebrate success, it means...
1. That you are grateful for the achievement and the struggles it took.
2. That you are grateful to have become and won't take it for granted.
3. That you are ready for new achievements because celebrated success gives you the courage to      achieve more. It also...
4   Motivates others to crave for success and justifies that success is earned.
5. It makes the stress all worth it after all.

 So, make time to celebrate your accomplishments. Life should not only be lived but should also be celebrated.  Celebrate every tiny success because those who celebrate small victories and simple pleasures win over and over again. The more you praise and celebrate success the more there is to celebrate. Thank you for reading and have a lovely week..


Damilola Olamide Adebambi

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, YOU CAN DO IT!

Hello wonderful people! it's another beautiful week for positive vibes and exploration. There is nothing to be compared to the gift of life. It's the greatest of all gifts. It is another opportunity to live right, make right choices, change from bad to good and worship our creator. This week is for reflection on past posts on this blog. Have you been following the posts and you feel some of them are practically impossible? did you even try some and discovered that they were overwhelming? did you think it is easier said than done? trust me they are as easy as ABC if you can follow the rules. But first, you have to change your mindset from negativity to positivism. You have to firmly believe in your heart that you can do it.

Don't forget that you are who you say you are if you don't believe who God says you are.

Never ever think that it is impossible for you to be a better you, a successful you, a wiser you, and a you that is full of great influence. It is just a thing of the mind. Some of the things that hold humanity down from maximizing their full potentials are more mental than physical. A constant practice of how you intend to become who you want to become does the magic. You see, change is a beautiful thing but it also takes a certain process. Change doesn't happen just like that, it takes a conscious effort to achieve it. And you don't have to force or rush it. When you err or make few mistakes after your commitment, don't be disappointed or frustrated. Simply look for a way you can avoid making the same mistakes over and over again.

This is also applicable to the efforts you make towards being successful. You keep trying, failing, getting it right and with time it becomes a habit for you to succeed. You realize you don't need to force success anymore, you just see yourself succeeding at everything. What happens is, your years of practice will make it easier for you to succeed at anything you venture into. Success has one big rule, don't give up!

Therefore if you are trying to change from certain addiction like masturbation, drinking, smoking, telling lies, sex, anger, self-pity, worry, insecurity, jealousy and it seem impossible, please don't give up. If you need to get a therapist, don't hesitate to find one.

keep trying to be consciously good till you become unconsciously good at it. 

Don't be frustrated if things are not going as planned. Trust yourself and believe that whatever happens, you can succeed through it.  like I always say the only person that can stop you from being all that you want to be is you. So if you ask me, yes you can do it, you can re-write your life's story in a more interesting way that will have great impact on humanity.. Just believe in you and your process.

Thanks and have a beautiful week.

Damilola Olamide Adebambi

NEVER STOP LEARNING!

Hello friends! how was your weekend? mine was fantastic. We held a program for women on Saturday, 8th July. The focus was on how to maximize the potentials in women and it was filled with so much impacts. Part of the lessons learnt was never to stop learning.

Learning is a vital part of life and if anyone wants to live a happy and successful life, they must make learning a routine. How do you learn? by attending seminars, doing follow up courses on your passion, being a part of an association with positive impacts, reading inspirational books, getting someone to coach or mentor you e.t.c.  Often times, I have heard people make mince meat of coaching, mentoring, attending seminars or even reading books because they are of the opinion that those who will be communicating to them are humans like them who have issues of their own.

This is a wrong notion because everyone is here on earth to fulfill one purpose or another and just like a medical doctor is purposed to give health care service to sick people. So are coaches, counselors and trainers. Their purpose is for you to get a healthy life through a sound mind.

A lot of people value their bodies more than their souls.  As much as it is good to take care of your body, it is better to take care of your mind and soul because of the power they have over your being or existence. for instance, the mind of a man who hasn't taken good care of it could make him see suicide as the best option to his problems. Therefore do not underestimate the power and influence that counselors and coaches carry to heal minds from negativism because it is of God just like lawyers and the rest of the professionals.

Learning keeps you abreast of your life and gives you the necessary update that you need to excel. No one knows it all and at some point you need to get inspired and motivated through learning. learning also brings hope to you, it keeps you refreshed and rejuvenated. I encourage you to attend as much training as possible that are related to your passion. That's what gives you an edge over your contemporaries.

For everyone thinking and wondering how they can discover their purpose, it is quite simple. Whatever you are passionate about leads you straight to your purpose so never take your  passion for granted. work on it, get trained on it, practice it with due diligence and you find yourself right where you are meant to be. Thank you always for your time. Have a great week!


Damilola Olamide Adebambi

LET GO OF YOUR PAST!

Hello friends! how is the week going? There is a saying that wisdom is the rightful application of knowledge. I hope that you are able to practice what you read on this blog. Trust me, if you do, you will realize that the things seen as big issues in life are actually minor if certain principles are followed. Therefore i implore you to not only read these posts but to also resonate with them.

This week, the focus is on you. How well do you love yourself? how well do you appreciate yourself? how thankful are you for who you are? How well do you treat yourself? you see, forgiving others comes from forgiving yourself just the way you can't love others if you don't love yourself. Because you simply cannot give what you don't have. So what does your past look like? Why do you find it hard to forgive yourself of your past mistakes or errors. To live a happy and fulfilled life, you have to love and appreciate yourself regardless of what you have done in the past.

Often times, I have realized that many people's past are usually the very hindrance they need to overcome if they want to break through the roof. The errors and mistakes of the past, the hurts and disappointment are the demons they need to fight in order to have a head way. Meanwhile the past will always remain in the past and there is absolutely nothing you can do to erase it. You cannot turn back the hand of time but you can control what happens in your present and future.

 Holding on to the past puts you in a spot like a caged bird and puts the past in replay like the movies and subject you to watch. It makes you think on how miserable you were in the past, how you could have done it right, how reckless you were e.t.c. While thinking of all these, it then doesn't allow you to take care of the present as much as you should. It doesn't allow you to apply lessons learnt from it to your present life so you don't make the same mistake. You are just focused on going back to correct the past which is absolutely not possible! 

One thing I am sure of is that you cannot run away from your root. But you can overcome the influence it has on you with the power of success. So you see, success has nothing to do with your background but has everything to do with you. Therefore loving yourself is very important to you and your self esteem because no one will appreciate you if you don't appreciate yourself. 

In living a happy and fulfilling life, you need to let go and trust your growth and the process that it takes. Just like every other thing, life is in process, if you don't make mistakes you cannot get certain things right, so mistakes are bound to happen. They are for life's lessons and most importantly for the sake of process. I encourage you today not to be too hard on yourself. Love yourself , accept who you are especially where you are from, set goals, smash them and see yourself soar high like an eagle.

 Thank you for reading through, enjoy the rest of the week.

Damilola Olamide Adebambi