USE SMALL WINS TO MOTIVATE HEALTHY BEHAVIOUR!

Hello guys! it's another episode on the blog today. I have been thinking on this particular topic for a while and I feel the need to share with you all. Is there anyone who feels that despite how hard they work and pray, just a bit of what they expect comes to them in terms of result? you are not alone, I always felt that way too.

But recently my perception because I realised that it is not really about how big the win is, it is about the fact that progress or growth is recorded, however little it may be.

We sometimes short change ourselves from enjoying and celebrating the small wins while waiting for the big wins because we feel disappointed; not knowing the damage that it can cause to us.

Not being appreciative of  small wins can cause discouragement, self pity and all round negativity.

We must therefore learn to appreciate small wins so that when the big wins eventually comes, we will appreciate it even more. For in appreciation of the seemingly little results, we find ourselves on the road that leads to getting bigger results.

 Being appreciative of your small wins solidifies your process, enabling you to trust it even more.
 It keeps your hope high for the big wins to come and also increases your level of positivism.

From now, always make choices that keeps you positive and happy towards fulfillment of your purpose.



Damilola Adebambi

YOU ARE MADE FOR MORE!

Hello everyone, Oh how I missed you all so much! I can't even begin to tell the story of how I was hindered from reaching out to you like I used to. But thank God I'm here now and that's all that matters.

I know a lot has happened to you while I was away and you have probably considered settling for less or giving up altogether. I am telling you right now that it doesn't have to end that way.

 You are more than whatever circumstance you are faced with now and you just have to keep working hard to make your dream a reality.

During my time away I learnt so much and I can tell you for sure that I practically went through some uncomfortable situations. What saw me through is the fact that I refused to give up on my dream of making the world a better place through my write ups, just because I had a little hitch.

You know sometimes you just have to look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself that you are made for things so great, beyond what your present situation is, such that you can't afford to give up. No matter who you are, no matter the way the world sees you, you ought to know that you are more than what people see. And you can't allow your situation to distort or override that.

Your dreams are valid, don't ever settle for less. And no matter the hard work you have to do to make your dream a reality, it will be worth the while. So this is me, cheering you on that you should go for it!




Damilola Adebambi

CONSISTENCE IS THE SECRET OF SUCCESS!

Hello everyone, happy new week! It's Monday morning and I would like to share with you the secret of many successful people. As an individual who wants to continue to be relevant in every area, please study the word CONSISTENCY and act on it.

 It means the act of being regular, constant or steady. To continually do something as a thread. Consistency is what sets the people who are serious about success apart from the ones that are not.

It gives you the opportunity to experience the process called growth, creates a profile of you in the hearts of people and makes you to be known for the cause you stand for. It's an all round pointer to success and as you become consistent, you become better everyday.

In living an intentional life, you have to be consistent especially in the place of your purpose. Mostly because whatever you choose to be consistent about becomes an habit for you. But if you are wondering how you can become consistent, find passion and follow it!

Thank you for your time, have a beautiful week!


Damilola Adebambi

WISHES NEED ACTION TO COME TRUE!

Hello everyone, I hope your week has been great? Often times people have misconceptions about wishes coming true through luck. It is a good thing to wish, but it is best to work for the things wished for. Sometimes, you don't even have to work for a long time before everything takes shape in the direction of what you wish for, but certain efforts are required in preparation for the miracles that you earnestly pray for.

Absence of preparation mostly results to missed opportunities where the person wishing does not even realize it when their wishes finally come to pass. This means you only attract and connect to what you desire and work hard for.

Do wishes come true? yes but only your actions can determine if your wish will come true or not because no one can become great just by wishing to be great. Conscious and intentional steps have to be taken towards achieving greatness. Please don't be deceived, there is no short cut to success but if you wish for anything, believe strongly in it and pursue it passionately with hard work. 

Thank you for taking time to read this, God bless always!




Damilola Adebambi

VALIDATE YOURSELF!

Happy new year everyone! It's been such a very long time on here, but all thanks to God for this great comeback.

I have a word for someone out there and it is, stop looking for validation in all the wrong places! Sometimes, even the closest people to you may not have the privilege of seeing the great picture the way you see it and it is absolutely normal for them not to.

You need to stop seeking for approval everywhere. Approve yourself, validate yourself so others can validate you, it is as simple as that. Once upon a time I used to feel the same way too, but I have come to realize that people call you the names you call yourself. If you see yourself winning, others will see you that way and if you see yourself losing, they will see you that way too and I definitely have stayed winning ever since.

 You have been called to do that which you do by God and He will not change His mind about that. Remind yourself daily that you are good, you are perfect, you are wise, you are purposeful, you are more than your current level, you are a star. What makes people fail most times is lack of self confidence. lack of confidence brings you to a place of fear and doubt. Where you ought to take bold step, you fidget and panic.

I encourage you to begin to call yourself wonderful names from today, wear self confidence like an attire, but don't be proud and you will see how easy it is to break boundaries and acquire new territories. Thank you for reading, have an amazing week.





Damilola Adebambi