YOUR INNER PEACE IS IMPORTANT!

Hello dear people! On the blog this week, I encourage you to please focus more on your inner peace. That is, the state of your mind and soul. Your mind is where lots of ideas are birth, it is also where evil acts are planned. If people's hearts are ordered open what would yours look like? Some hearts are full of locked up emotions, bottled up anger, hate and malice. If you are guilty of the above mentioned, you haven't been so fair on your soul.

 It is no more news that our actions are the outcome of what goes on in our mind. The mind controls how we behave and react to things. Many people fail to realize that sometimes it is okay to speak out than to die in silence. And the essence of it is so that your mind can be free. A free mind produces positive things from the heart. Same reason why you need to cry when you have to. We make mistakes by thinking not speaking out is self control. Self control is totally different. It is the ability to control what you let in and out of your mind.

Once you free your mind and learn how to keep it that way, you will be in your truest form. Many people live fake lives these days in the name of self control while their heart is filled with hurts, hatred and malice for others. Please note that everyone cannot be your friend and you cannot be liked by everyone. Appreciate the few people who do and live a happy life. The problem is you want to try keep everyone around, yet you don't have the emotional capability to do so. Why stress yourself? You need to first be at peace with yourself before you can be at peace with everyone.

These days people curse inwardly and smile sweetly on the outside. When they are offended, rather than speak up and let the offenders know, they bottle it up in the name of self control. The truth is there is a limit to what everyone can take in and once the limit is exceeded, you definitely cannot control what comes next.  That is why you shouldn't fill your heart to the brim with negativity concerning anyone or yourself. A happy life radiates beauty and positivism from the inside . We see many lovely faces but what we don't get to see often is their ugly minds. Meanwhile, our creator is more concerned about our soul than body. Having inner peace is paramount to living a life of fulfillment.

STEPS TO HAVING INNER PEACE:

1. Forgive and reconcile quickly. Let those who offend you know, it doesn't matter if they don't feel the same way with you. Always remember that your inner peace is more important.

2. You can't spread love if you don't have a clear and peaceful mind, it is not possible. You need to be able to feel the love from the inside so that it can genuinely manifest outside .

3. Stay positive always, never give room for negativism. When you are offended never ever think of revenge. It fuels your anger more, especially when you are not able to carry out the action.

4. Cry when you need to. Enough of inner cry, it is deadly to your soul. Cry out the pains of the hurts you feel, let the tears flow freely so your heart can be light and free.

5. Do not expect so much from people. Only you have the key to your inner peace.

6. Learn to ignore people's excesses. No one is without one.




Damilola Olamide Adebambi

JUDGING OTHERS DOES NOT DEFINE WHO THEY ARE, IT DEFINES WHO YOU ARE!

Hello to my favorite people in the world! Happy new week. Last week was quiet busy for me but thanks to God I'm very much free this week. On the blog today, I want to encourage you to do the right thing always regardless of what others think or feel for the sake of your cause. Anytime you do something wrong or make a mistake after a commitment, don't beat yourself up for it.  Just realize that you were wrong, make amends and move on like nothing happened. Yes, in people's eyes it may seem so grave that they might find it hard to forget or stop talking about. But you don't have to bother about that because it would have then become a matter between them and God.

In this regard, you must be careful how you judge and criticize others. Sometimes people tell us about other people in certain light, either in a good or bad way. Even when we are not witnesses of the matter, we tend to judge and criticize them based on what we are told. Now, two things we usually don't know is that the labelled people might have repented and make amends with God but you will be there judging who God has acquitted. 2, The person who told you about them might also have forgiven and moved on, but you will be caught in the middle of it.

When you react or treat people based on what you hear about them from others, you end up committing greater sin than the guilty one. Be careful how you meddle into the affairs that you did not witness.  I have realized that everyone wants to be the great correcter forgetting that none is perfect. To correct is good but the best way to do that, is to correct in love. The reason is, hardly will someone who is corrected in love rebel against it.

One of the greatest errors committed by humanity is the fact that we are quick to hear about others, judge them and react without proper investigation or evidence . No one is mad really, I believe that for every act there is always a cause. Humans should learn how to find out the real story about why people are the way they are and not just jump into conclusion. Some people because of envy spread false rumor about their friends and due to our nature as humans we join them in talking about it without knowing for a fact if it is so. Humanity must be saved. Be the change you want to see.

I have decided to be a voice of hope to humanity and you are also invited to join me in the journey to genuine love, peace and harmony in the world. Say no to gossip, be kind to others no matter what, treat people the way you like to be treated, live, love and let live. For the world to be a great, safe place, it begins with you and me. Thank you for reading through, have a blessed week.


Damilola Olamide Adebambi