YOUR INNER PEACE IS IMPORTANT!

Hello dear people! On the blog this week, I encourage you to please focus more on your inner peace. That is, the state of your mind and soul. Your mind is where lots of ideas are birth, it is also where evil acts are planned. If people's hearts are ordered open what would yours look like? Some hearts are full of locked up emotions, bottled up anger, hate and malice. If you are guilty of the above mentioned, you haven't been so fair on your soul.

 It is no more news that our actions are the outcome of what goes on in our mind. The mind controls how we behave and react to things. Many people fail to realize that sometimes it is okay to speak out than to die in silence. And the essence of it is so that your mind can be free. A free mind produces positive things from the heart. Same reason why you need to cry when you have to. We make mistakes by thinking not speaking out is self control. Self control is totally different. It is the ability to control what you let in and out of your mind.

Once you free your mind and learn how to keep it that way, you will be in your truest form. Many people live fake lives these days in the name of self control while their heart is filled with hurts, hatred and malice for others. Please note that everyone cannot be your friend and you cannot be liked by everyone. Appreciate the few people who do and live a happy life. The problem is you want to try keep everyone around, yet you don't have the emotional capability to do so. Why stress yourself? You need to first be at peace with yourself before you can be at peace with everyone.

These days people curse inwardly and smile sweetly on the outside. When they are offended, rather than speak up and let the offenders know, they bottle it up in the name of self control. The truth is there is a limit to what everyone can take in and once the limit is exceeded, you definitely cannot control what comes next.  That is why you shouldn't fill your heart to the brim with negativity concerning anyone or yourself. A happy life radiates beauty and positivism from the inside . We see many lovely faces but what we don't get to see often is their ugly minds. Meanwhile, our creator is more concerned about our soul than body. Having inner peace is paramount to living a life of fulfillment.

STEPS TO HAVING INNER PEACE:

1. Forgive and reconcile quickly. Let those who offend you know, it doesn't matter if they don't feel the same way with you. Always remember that your inner peace is more important.

2. You can't spread love if you don't have a clear and peaceful mind, it is not possible. You need to be able to feel the love from the inside so that it can genuinely manifest outside .

3. Stay positive always, never give room for negativism. When you are offended never ever think of revenge. It fuels your anger more, especially when you are not able to carry out the action.

4. Cry when you need to. Enough of inner cry, it is deadly to your soul. Cry out the pains of the hurts you feel, let the tears flow freely so your heart can be light and free.

5. Do not expect so much from people. Only you have the key to your inner peace.

6. Learn to ignore people's excesses. No one is without one.




Damilola Olamide Adebambi